Some
beautiful paths can't be discovered without getting lost.
Erol
Ozan
I’m taking
some time to stop and think about my journey so far in Second (SL). (No, it’s not because I don’t have anything
else to write about as Significant Other suggests.) Lately, I’ve been giving some thought to what
I’ve done inworld so far and how I’ve changed,
even in Real Life (RL). (Significant Other says something about been trying
to tell me that.) So, I figured I’d
share a few thoughts about my journey in SL with this story.
My original
intended purpose when I came inworld almost five years ago was to travel across
the entire Metaverse beginning
with SL and to write about my journey in my blog. I was going to focus on the technical side,
learn how to script, and “get behind the pixels.” I would be in the background, watching,
observing, taking notes, and reporting about what I saw.
Well, yes,
you guessed it, a funny thing happened on my way to the Metaverse!
For
starters, I never really left SL.
Instead of becoming a techie, I moved into the social scene. I began pushing
the edges of the envelope. I visited nude
resorts inworld. (Full disclosure,
Significant Other put me up to that.) Oh, and then came my irregular series, Sex
and the Single Avatar in Second Life.
I think you’re getting the picture
now.
I became
less of a loner. I made friends. (Don’t listen to Significant Other saying I
pay them to hang out with me. I only did
that once. When I was six years old in
RL. And, I never did it again because
they took my money and still wouldn’t hang out with me!) I
became involved in communities. (Many requiring clothing.) I went to friends’
weddings and even got
adopted!
One day I
turned around and realized that I had a social life!
Why did this
happen?
Maybe I was
more open to change that I was willing to admit in the beginning. Then there’s the fact that people are just so
nice and friendly inworld! Many
communities are highly developed around common interests and draw wanderers in
very easily.
What does
this mean?
I look
forward to going inworld and meeting my friends. I miss them when they’re not there and worry
when they’re away for too long. I grow
concerned over them in RL. I experience
regret when friends leave and communities close down. (Which seems to be happening with all too
much frequency these days.) I worry if
SL might go away.
And, this is
the big one, I believe that I’ve changed in RL too. (Significant Other agrees
and says for the better. Significant
Other also takes credit for pushing me into SL.)
How? I think I look at RL very differently now
than before I began my journey. My
biggest change is probably understanding that strangers, no matter how
different from me they may be, are really only friends I haven’t met yet. (Significant Other smiles in agreement.)
Continuing
along in my journey inworld, I plan to explore more my involvement with friends
and communities, to look at our feelings and relationships and are they really
any
different from those in RL, and to do things differently myself and see
where it may lead!
Watch this
space for future updates!
As
always, I’m grateful to all inworld for their kindness and time in stopping to
talk with a stranger who was passing through their lives!
I can be found on Google+ as
webspelunker Ghostraven.
On Skype I’m webspelunker
Ghostraven.
I welcome feedback from
readers, please either comment on my blog or
e-mail me at webspelunker@gmail.com
.
If you would like to read about my other adventures in Second Life please click here.
If you would like to read about my other adventures in Second Life please click here.
Open roads and kind fires!