What spirit is so empty
and blind, that it cannot recognize the fact that the foot is more noble than
the shoe, and skin more beautiful that the garment with which it is clothed?
Michaelangelo
Earlier, when I blogged about my two
visits to a nudist function in the 1920’s Berlin sim in Second Life, a
couple of readers commented that if I was interested in checking out nudism
inworld then I should visit The
Wild Coast Naturist Resort. I was
told that this was a full time nudist location with decorum.
Well, I’m not always sure if places
known for their decorum will necessarily want to have anything to do with
me. But, I’ve gotten used to rejection
in life, both SL and Real Life (SL). So,
I decide to go visit.
Wild Coast is a nudity required
sim. Here, I was committing to more than
an hour in a controlled environment as I’d done on my two previous forays into
nudity. But, after having wandered
around strangers with all of us nude previously, this didn’t seem like all that
much of a big deal anymore. (Maybe there
is something to the old saying that once you start doing it, it becomes
natural. Sorry, bad joke.)
During one of my initial research trips,
I met Sweety Basevi who
functions as the general manager for the resort. She agreed to meet me for an interview and I
was all set.
Before I go any further, I want to
talk about terminology. (Give me a
break, I’m a writer, words are very important to me.) I keep saying “nudist” or use derivations of
the word. Sweety very quickly pointed
put to me that Wild Coast is a naturist
(Caution: link contains pictures of nudity.) and not a nudist resort like other
sims inworld. Looking at the resort’s
rules shows why. Wild Coast is naturist
in the classic sense. People come
together in a state of undress to enjoy one another’s company and enjoy SL unclothed
just as naturists do in RL. Public sexual
displays are frowned upon and can get one booted out. One prominent rule posted in Wild Coast is
that men cannot have erections because Wild Coast is a mature sim in SL
parlance and from a female perspective, it is threatening and intrusive. (If only RL were that simple.) There is another sim, Turtle
Coast, which is an adult sim and is more liberal. (Now that I’m so comfortable running around in
the altogether, maybe another story in the future?)
With that cleared up, let me return to
my interview with Sweety. Like me she is
nude. Standing a little shorter than me
(Come to think of it, how tall am I in SL?) with windblown (Aren’t AO’s
something else?) shoulder length brunette hair, and tattoos, she is tanned from
all her inworld hours spent at the beach.
(Look, if I said it was all the result of some clever programming in
somebody’s basement in Detroit, it just wouldn’t have sounded as good would
it?)
We meet at the Wild Coast resort at
the appointed time and I begin with my questions. I ask about the start of Wild
Coast. Sweety replies that it is the
third sim of Kaiya
Islands and when a decision was made five years ago to open it, there was
also a decision that it be a naturist site.
I inquire about the sim’s current moderate
rating as opposed to adult. Sweety explains
that this goes back to the earlier PG and mature ratings. Due to other business activities like land
rentals the decision was made to stay with the moderate rating when the ratings
changed. This is when Turtle Coast was
established as an adult sim. She continues
saying that flirting is the most typical activity that occurs in Wild Coast and
while there are secluded areas affording privacy, they are very careful about
staying within the ratings guidelines set forth by Linden Lab (LL).
My next question is about the one time
membership fee of $450L charged when one joins.
Sweety explains how the fees help to pay the tiers for the venue, as
well as the staff that work here, helping to ensure that everyone has a great
time in a welcoming and safe environment.
From my visits, I can say that they have succeeded.
From my recent
visits with the SL BSDM community I know that many there practice the lifestyle
in both SL and RL, I ask Sweety if she has seen this with naturism? She responds that she understands how that
can happen and suspects that people may first try naturism in SL and then be
more comfortable with it in RL.
I then ask her about why she’s a naturist in
SL. Sweety says working with the Islands,
she goes where she’s needed. She was a
bit reluctant to strip initially she admits.
But after a short period of time, she got over it and now it’s second
nature to her to be naked, she laughs as she tells me this. Sweety says she can now sympathize with people
who come here for the first time and are not used to being naked. (I can sympathize as well.)
Our conversation turns to how being naked in
SL is easier than in RL. (Those
wandering eyes and normal male reactions I’ve written about elsewhere.) Sweety states that we still associate our avatars
with our own feelings and inhibitions.
She observes that once a newcomer has been naked for five minutes or so,
they actually stop feeling self-conscious.
I wonder if it has something to do with us looking a lot better in SL
than we do in RL?
Social activities, as Sweety explains, besides
the aforementioned flirting, include DJ's, concerts, and parties. We discuss the appeal of Wild Coast. Sweety uses terms like welcoming, enjoyable, and
safe. She admits this is probably the
result of the controls in place. There
is none of the rude behavior that I’ve seen or friends have reported to me
about other sims. Whenever I arrive, I
notice that others are rezzing in as well and as they enter, people call out
their names and greet them. I haven’t seen that in too many other places
inworld. There appears to be a very
tight community here in Wild Coast.
Sweety rethinks her use of the word “controls”
and suggests that it’s more about making sure the rules are followed enhancing
the members’ experience. She speaks of
the enjoyable vibes at the resort.
Sweety also credits the staff for getting and
keeping things going, and are truly awesome in her words. The friendliness, she
thinks has a lot to do with the members themselves. For her, they are wonderful. (I get the sense that this woman really loves
her job.) Coincidentally, while interviewing
Sweety, a friend IM’s me and asks what I’m doing. I reply that I’m doing an interview at a
naturist resort. She responds asking if
I’m at the most famous one in SL, Wild Coast.
Turns out she’s a member too. The
grid’s getting smaller!
The membership at 24,000 is very large. (I wish I had that many readers!) Average daily traffic for the sim is 19,500
which is another good number. The
biggest problems that Sweety encounters with members are those who try to break
the no clothes, no shoes, and no erections rules. (I have a very open minded SL friend,
actually, she’s more of an anarchist, who has a problem with the resort’s no
clothes rule. She believes it’s another
imposition of authority. I’ll probably
find her inworld someday dressing in protest of something or other.)
We talk next about what are the most popular
spots within Wild Coast with the members.
Sweety says the public area at the arrival point and the main dance area
by the beach are probably the two most popular locations at the resort. The secluded areas are also popular for folks
to go off to when they want some privacy to get to know one another better.
My time with Sweety comes to an end and I thank
her before taking my leave.
Wild Coast is everything that I was told it
would be. A friendly, safe, and enjoyable environment fostering friendship
among residents. Besides the social
aspects, the resort is beautifully done and always has good mood music
playing. For anyone looking for a
naturist experience in SL, I recommend Wild Coast. Yes, there is a fee. However, it’s trivial compared to what can be
gained.
The resort, in my opinion, follows in the
tradition of RL naturist communities which were about enjoying nature and other
people without the restrictions and prejudices brought on by clothing.
One final point, I paid for my own membership
fee to the resort so I could walk about and check things out for myself. I will also return looking for new material
for my blogs.
I would like to thank Sweety Basevi for her
time and openness with me.
As always, I’m grateful to all for their
kindness and time in stopping to talk with a stranger who was passing through
their lives.
I welcome feedback from readers, please
either comment on my blog or e-mail me at webspelunker@gmail.com .
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Photo
No. 1 Sweety Basevi
Photo
No. 2 Wild
Coast Arrival Area and Entrance
Photo
No. 3 Public
Area
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No. 4 Members
Only Common Area
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No. 5 Members
Only Secluded Area
2 comments:
Hey,
I have just published an article about the other sim, called Turtle Beach. Come togehter with an interview with the owner of both regions. The most interesting bit (i find) is that she is actually making enough money from those properties to make a living in real life. Not many Second Life business owners can say that.
Caroline,
Thanks for reading and telling me about your article which I read and enjoyed thoroughly! Kaiya is a marvelous woman!
Your blog is also fun and very informative.
TC
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