webspelunker - My Travels Across Second Life: Kelly Cross

Yet knowing how way leads on to way,

I doubted if I should ever come back.

Robert Frost

A while back, I visited Beau Belle Village, a community in Second Life (SL), and met two of its co-owners, May O. Mingzi and Kelly Cross.

I had a wonderful time but only visited part of the sim. As it always seems to, time had caught up with me and I had to leave as Real Life (RL) called out to me.

Time passed, actually almost eighteen months. (Time does tend to get away from me as Significant Other nods in violent agreement.) I’d run into May and promise to come back but somehow something always got in the way.

While I may make an excuse and say this is the risk of befriending a wandering scribe such as myself, I knew I had to return to check in with May and to finish my story. (Significant Other applauds in the background.)

Finally, just recently, I met May again and we agreed to meet and, believe it or not, I showed up.

Beau Belle is a comfortable SL sim built around three primary communities, Belle’s coffee shop, Kelly’s Closet, and the Leonard Cohen Club (LCC). In addition, there are several small businesses, and residences for people wishing to make Beau Belle their SL home.

The sim has the feel of a small seaside town, mixing New England and English architectural elements. (Throwing in the occasional Dutch windmill!) The communities are welcoming and friendly. All maintain a highly active social calendar. Many times including live RL performance artists on their programs.

During my prior visit, I had toured Belle’s, Kelly’s Closet, and the residential area. I had been impressed and was now happy to know that I was finally going back.

When I rez in to meet May, she’s at an LCC dance which is underway as I arrive.

Bystanders are hospitable and greet me as I join May at the bar.

May explains to me that LCC is a private club of people who enjoy the music of Leonard Cohen, the well known RL Canadian musician. (BTW when I arrived they weren’t dancing to his music! They tend to be somewhat eclectic in their musical tastes.) Club members are mainly Europeans so their social functions tend to be on European time. (Which is perfect for Western hemisphere night owls.) She continues that this is a “real” community and not just a virtual one. Many of its members have belonged for more than seven years and have met in RL at Leonard Cohen tours across Europe. LCC also has its own blog covering its history and planned events.

Below the bar, May points to three Hollywood style memorial stars hung in memory of three former LCC members who have passed away in RL. Their names are Eros Xenobuilder, JonJo Ravenheart and Sockeye Admiral. On a hill overlooking the club are three gravestones in their memory.

For me, this is another example of how the virtual world of SL blends with the reality of RL. When people move off the grid into RL with their friendships and relationships or memorialize inworld those who have passed on in RL then we’re talking about something beyond mere roleplay or even a simple chat function.

I believe that we’re talking about just another facet of our RL lives.

May also operates two of the small businesses in town.

One is iMatch which is a non-profit self-run matchmaking service. iMatch doesn’t actually match people but through boards lets people know who’s looking and who’s available.

May’s other business venture (She’s definitely a very busy woman!) is Hearthaven Photography and Creations, a landscape photography, SL artwork and SL portrait services venture. She also makes jewelry and knick-knacks. Anyone interested in any of these products or services should definitely check this shop out!

There are other small businesses in the sim and I’ll come back and blog about them in the future. (And I promise it won’t be as long this time!)

As before, I find Beau Belle Village to be a friendly and hospitable sim inworld. Residents who are looking to either party or put down roots here won’t regret those decisions. Especially for those who enjoy a SL experience that also includes a RL component, Beau Belle Village is a must visit location.

May maintains a website with a schedule of events and other information. She is active on Facebook, Twitter, and Google+ for anyone looking to follow her.

I still recommend Beau Belle Village for all who looking for a sociable experience in SL with likeminded folks.

Drop by, say hello, and tell ‘em web sent you!

Maybe I’ll even let you buy me a drink at the bar!

I’d like to thank May for her time and hospitality, not to mention her patience, in meeting me for this story.

Additional pictures from my visit can be found on this flickr page.

As always, I’m grateful to all inworld for their kindness and time in stopping to talk with a stranger who was passing through their lives.

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Open roads and kind fires!

The community stagnates without the impulse of the individual. The impulse dies away without the sympathy of the community.

William James

During my wanderings across Second Life (SL), I’ve come across many communities. Many of these have themes such as 1920’s Berlin, nudism, steampunk, the Regency Era, Gor, or BDSM. (Yes, I know sex and nudity seem to outweigh other topics but I’m not saying this is a scientific survey.)

Sometimes, I come across a community which is just a group of people joined by the enjoyment of each other’s company and common interests such as music, dance, or just hanging out. Recently, I visited one such sim and this story describes my experiences there. (Don’t worry, everyone, including me, kept their clothes on.)

The sim is Beau Belle Village and I first visited a short while ago after Morgana Nagorski invited me to the Unified Hearts Revisited exhibition there after one of her art exhibitions openings. I was intrigued by what I saw in terms of visible beauty of the sim, the camaraderie of the residents, and the hospitality of the event’s hostess and one of the sim’s owners, May O. Mingzi.

May, at that time, offered to give me a tour of Beau Belle and I subsequently took her up on her offer. Recently, I returned there to meet her and look around and learn about the sim.

I rez into Beau Belle and meet May who is waiting for me. May is one of the three owners of the sim. The others are Bluebell Broome, one of the original founders, and Kelly Cross. Actually, Kelly joins May and me as we begin.

May was brought to SL originally by a number of (Real Life) RL co-workers who had done SL, so that was one factor in her decision. Another was her past roleplaying in her life, live action roleplay (LARP), and Dungeons & Dragons, and that sort of thing as she puts it. She was at Great Wolf Lodge and played MagiQuest. So May thought it might be fun to do SL. But strangely enough she’s never been involved in a roleplay sim here inworld. May juggles her SL and RL. In the latter, she has a full time job as a writer (that’s real writer unlike yours truly) and editor and has a ten year old child. She is also a photographer in both lives and maintains a photo shop in Beau Belle. May generally handles publicity and events – the recruiting for and hosting thereof.

Kelly was looking for something new online and thought it was a game at first. (I think many of us made that mistake.) In RL, she’s in the IT field. In SL, she’s the owner and operator of Kelly’s Closet.

I ask if it would be fair to say curiosity brought both of them inworld. They reply affirmatively.

As for Bluebell, she is known for her hats and cozy woolen attire (in both SL and RL). Her rez date inworld is July 2007. In RL, she works in the film graphics and effects world, and has “an unstoppable passion for art, craft and design, which emerges in Second Life in the form of a passion for building”. She built many of the buildings in Beau Belle, rather than buying, and created most of the textures herself with her camera and Photoshop/Gimp. Bluebell says that if anyone sees anything that’s not just so, to blame her, and she'll come and fix it.

Beau Belle began years ago with Bluebell and several friends who had ambitions of creating their own community, based on the principles of fairness, friendliness, openness, and creative design values. After a brief faltering start on another sim, they bought a quarter sim, which is the north-east corner of the current Beau Belle. She and the other co-owners started building, planting trees, renting out homes, and starting a small community. They moved through a half sim and finally to a full sim which Beau Belle’s current plot. (BTW, Beau Belle Village has a great blog with history, owner profiles, upcoming events, and other information for those looking for more. I sourced part of this story from there.)

May and Kelly explain to me the groups that comprise Beau Belle’s community which May describes as a mixed use sim. The three venues are the coffe shop (Belle’s), the Leonard Cohen Club (LCC), and Kelly’s Closet. The latter two are private clubs but all work together for the mutual benefit of the sim. In addition, there are many homes and shops. The entire sim is modeled on an English village. There are also private sky islands.

Belle’s, the coffee shop is intended to be a community center, so it's more integrated with the "English village" look May explains to me. While Kelly’s Closet has a more contemporary club feel to it. Kelly’s is intended as a location to give the transgendered community a nice, no sexual club to hang out at inworld. LCC has mostly European members.

May and Kelly guide me through Beau Belle. We start at the coffee shop and move to Kelly’s Closet. We visit the game room where a variety of board and other games are available for residents. I go upstairs in windmill. (Very accurate detailing BTW, I visited several when I once lived in Holland so I know a little something about this.) My guides tell me that there are hidden rooms across the sim for their guests’ enjoyment such as the VIP Lounge which I’m shown but asked not to say where it is. (Go visit for yourselves, it’s worth the trouble to find and see. Enough said.) I’m told there are other secrets to be found as well. (Hint, hint.)

I see the homes where May and Kelly live and am impressed by their comforts and appointments. May has some photographs from our mutual friend, Hitomi Tamatzui, hanging on her walls. (Kelly, thank you for letting me raid your refrigerator.) I see where the village green bordered by residents’ homes and where the St. Patrick’s Day Parade began. (Seems wherever I go, SL or RL, there’s one of these parades on March 17^th, even in Singapore!)

Time does not permit me to see other sites in Beau Belle such as the fishing docks, a cannon where one can shoot themselves out of (whom am I to say), cars to drive, a meditation spot, and a snuggle cave. We also don’t have time to visit LCC or the inworld dating service, iMatch. (Don’t worry, I have more than a few good ideas for future stories.)

By this time, Kelly has to leave to handle Village business and I do want to be mindful of May’s time. Of which we have enough for her to show me her photo shop, Hearthaven, where I see her works. Definitely worth a visit to see some very good photography especially if you need to fill an open space on a wall in your SL home.

I thank May for her time and hospitality. I ask her to extend my thanks to Kelly who did not plan to spend part of her evening touring me around. I then take my leave.

I’m impressed by Beau Belle Village and the community that Bluebell, Kelly, and May, along with many others, have built and maintained. There is a vibrant, diverse group of people from across the world who have either made their virtual homes here or have included it in their inworld social lives.

There are issues in running a community like this. Sadly, griefers seem to appear when there are events. As for finances, May says Beau Belle is not a commercial sim. It’s not about making a profit. Rents and tips cover about 70% of the operating costs. May and the other co-owners are making a serious commitment of their own time and monies to keep the sim alive. They try to keep the place active, are on almost every day, and like to believe that they are not absentee landlords.

May keeps a full schedule of events running at Beau Belle and the calendar is available online.

I encourage all who are looking for a fun place to visit and hang out inworld to drop into Beau Belle. Support the shop keepers and leave some tips in the jars placed around the sim to help offset some of the costs. If you’re looking for a place to hang your hat and take up residence inworld then check Beau Belle out. The sim adjusts for the seasons so drop by if you’ve visited before, things will have changed!

I’ll return in the future for some more stories, there’s a lot more to see and write about. Maybe I’ll run into you there! (Please don’t use my presence to stay away. You can just avoid me if you prefer.)

I want to thank May and Kelly again for taking the time to show me around, answer my questions, and raid Kelly’s fridge.

As always, I’m grateful to all inworld for their kindness and time in stopping to talk with a stranger who was passing through their lives.

Below I’ve included a few links to pictures of Beau Belle Village. Pictures are fun but, trust me on this, go visit for yourself, see the place, meet the people, and have a great time!

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Photo No. 1 Belle’s Coffee Shop - Exterior

Photo No. 2 Belle’s Coffee Shop - Interior

Photo No. 3 Belle’s Coffee Shop – View from Shop

Photo No. 4 iMatch Offices

Photo No. 5 Kelly’s Closet - Shop

Photo No. 6 Kelly’s Closet - Club

Photo No. 7 Belle’s Game Room

Photo No. 8 Windmill

Photo No. 9 Crypt

Photo No. 10 Village Green in Autumn

Photo No. 11 Another Seaside View